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box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大英县人民法院蓬莱人民法庭副庭长 曾素蓉（中）</strong></span></p></section><section style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 8px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2.125em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p></section><p></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“当初为了娶小芳进门，我们家前前后后花了十多万，直到现在都还欠债八万！短短四个月她就要离婚，不是骗婚是什么？离婚可以，但彩礼必须退！”在调解室中，张大娘怨声载道，言语里尽是对儿媳小芳的不满。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">原来，小强和小芳是一对新婚不久的小夫妻。婚前，两人系同村村民，小芳离异，小强未婚，经媒人介绍相亲后熟知。见面当天，双方及亲人齐聚一堂，相互没意见便即刻敲定了婚事。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">由于磨合不够，小强与小芳的婚后生活满地鸡毛，经常因琐事发生矛盾，小强又事无巨细全盘告知母亲张大娘。张大娘爱子心切，找到媒人和小芳娘家人数落小芳的不是，导致小芳与小强矛盾加剧。四个月后，小芳与小强再次发生口角后回了娘家，并表示要与小强离婚。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">小强多次登门挽回无果后，张大娘提出要离婚必须全额退还彩礼！两家人闹得不可开交。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">想到小芳家一分彩礼钱都不愿意退，愤愤不平的张大娘竟在抖音发布了一条有关“小芳骗婚”的视频，并配上了小芳的生活照。短短几个小时，该视频的评论达七百多条，多数为对小芳的负面评价及辱骂贬损。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">小芳强烈要求张大娘删除，张大娘置之不理，无奈之下小芳只能报警。民警要求张大娘立即删除视频，张大娘借故推脱，迟迟不删。次日上午，小芳到公证处申请办理证据保全公证，并委托律师准备起诉材料提交到大英县人民法院蓬莱人民法庭，要求：一是与小强离婚，二是张大娘公开道歉并赔偿各项损失5万元。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">案件来到蓬莱法庭副庭长曾素蓉手中，常年经办家事案件的她也觉得棘手，毕竟这一个案件涉及了离婚、退还彩礼和网络侵权三个问题。“直接判决只会让两家人恩怨越积越深，将问题一并处理、息事宁人，才是处理该案的最优法。”曾素蓉暗暗想到，这次的调解工作虽然艰难，但再难都要试试！</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">初次的背对背调解中，当事人双方有着巨大的分歧——小强同意离婚的前提是小芳全额退还彩礼，而小芳坚持不予退还，张大娘也不愿赔偿损失。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">案子不能久调不判，先处理哪个问题才能让纠纷化解出现转机？曾素蓉考虑到，只要小芳和张大娘还是婆媳关系，网络侵权的问题就有调解的可能。即便无法调解，判决张大娘承担赔偿后，小强很大可能会起诉与小芳离婚，并要求退还彩礼，一次性解决全部问题的几率就比较大了。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">结合先处理网络侵权再处理离婚会激化双方矛盾，以及对后期上诉可能性的推测，遂判决不准小芳与小强离婚。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">不出意料，不支持离婚，小芳配合调解的意愿不强，坚持要求张大娘赔礼道歉并赔偿损失。根据案件具体情况，判决张大娘通过抖音平台向小芳公开道歉，并赔偿小芳各项损失9000元。判决生效后，小芳申请强制执行，张大娘的微信、支付宝、银行卡被冻结，小强一纸诉状反将小芳告上法庭。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">案件有了新的变化，一切都在掌握之中。曾素蓉启动“法庭+N”联调模式，邀请霞姐调解室调解员共同组织小芳、小强、张大娘进行调解。通过当事人说事+调解员说理+法官释法明理，几番拉锯战后，最终达成调解协议，小芳与小强离婚，并退还彩礼9000元，小芳向执行局撤回强制执行张大娘的申请。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">“离婚案小事不小，关乎两个家庭两辈人的和睦，只有调解才能事心双解。”曾素蓉认为，小案不小办，步步为营，案结事了人和才能定纷止争。新婚夫妻难免在磨合中遇到各种问题，尽可能多交流、多分享彼此的想法和感受，学会接受和尊重彼此的生活方式，方能更好地了解和理解对方，从源头上减少矛盾与冲突。</span></p><p>来源：遂宁市中级人民法院</p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//dyrmt.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_Y23" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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